In the wake of Steve McNair's murder at the hands of mistress Sahel Kazemi, it seems there's an unending path of negativity following the former NFL MVP. The latest? The New York Daily News is reporting, via an anonymous source, that McNair carried on a six-year affair with an exotic dancer in Minneapolis, Minn. According to the source, whom the News referred to as a "former business manager (of the strip club in question)," McNair was a "frequent visitor to the club and had an intimate and extramarital relationship" with said dancer. According to this person, the woman knew McNair was married with children, but still didn't care.
"She liked money and athletes," the former business manager said on condition of anonymity. "She went out with athletes before. She was one of those girls who said, 'You're married? You have kids? So what?' Lets have fun.The dancer was said to have an understanding with McNair, and she never wanted more than that. He would give her rent money or make car payments, according to the source. McNair would buy her plane tickets to meet up in cities where he was not going to be with his wife. "Everything was always first-class," the source told the Daily News.
"I can tell you that she was very upset when she learned that he had died," the former business manager added.
If these allegations are true, this is the latest in a line of marks against McNair, who was held in high esteem both on and off the football field as a family man with character. He was a leader on the field who earned great respect from teammates and opponents alike. He ran community outreach programs for children.
On the other hand, in the days following his murder, a string of bad news has unfolded.
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McNair signed a seven-year contract with the Houston Oilers after being selected third overall in the 1995 NFL Draft. As a prolific quarterback at Alcorn State, he shattered Division I-AA records, won the Walter Payton Award, and finished third in Heisman Trophy voting behind Rashaan Salaam and Ki-Jana Carter.
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During his early NFL career, McNair remained a backup to Chris Chandler until starting a game in December 1996 against the Jaguars. In his first season as the Oilers' starter in 1997, he led the team to an 8-8 record, and his 2,665 passing yards were the most for the Oilers since Warren Moon in 1993. He also collected 674 yards on the ground, the third-highest total for a quarterback in NFL history.
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McNair developed a special bond with his teammates as the franchise progressed and the team's name was changed to the Tennessee Titans. With emerging stars such as wide receiver Derrick Mason, pictured, McNair led the Titans to victory in seven of their last nine games during the 1999 season. Tennessee finished with a 13
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McNair and the Titans battled throughout the 1999 playoffs, including a shocking wild-card win over Buffalo on a play dubbed the "Music City Miracle." His most notable drive came in Super Bowl XXXIV, when he carried the Titans 87 yards in the final minute and 48 seconds, only to come up just shy when Kevin Dyson was tackled at the 1-yard-line. The Titans lost 23-16 in a heartbreaker.
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Despite missing two games with an injured calf and ankle during the 2003 season, McNair finished with the best numbers of his career -- including 24 touchdown passes and a quarterback rating of 100.4. McNair and Peyton Manning were named co-NFL MVPs following the season. "I'm sharing it with Peyton Manning, I'm sharing it with a great guy," said McNair.
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Titans head coach Jeff Fisher, left, told The Tennessean that he'll always remember McNair as one of his favorite players. "It is an extremely emotional moment and I don
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McNair, referred to as a "warrior" by former teammate Al Del Greco, fought through numerous aches and pains during his career. He missed eight games in 2004 with a bruised sternum, but rebounded for a successful closing season with the Titans in 2005.
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In June 2006, McNair's long stay with the Titans ended with a trade to Baltimore, where he played the final two seasons of his career. He led the Ravens to a 13-3 record and an AFC South championship in 2006 before faltering in 2007 due to back and shoulder injuries.
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With both the Titans and Ravens, the respected veteran paved the way for young black quarterbacks such as Vince Young, right, and Troy Smith. "He taught me so much - not about the game, but about life, and I owe him a great deal," said Young.
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First of all, McNair was killed by his 20-year-old mistress, whom he at the very least helped to purchase a Cadillac Escalade. In the days leading up to his death, his wife was said to not have heard from him in days. Kazemi apparently thought McNair was going to divorce his wife and live with her, but Mechelle McNair allegedly knew of no such plans.
This latest news, if true, just further tramples on the once-mighty legacy built by McNair in the minds of some. Others just want him to be able to rest in peace. Regardless, it seems as though reporters are going to keep digging, and it appears they are going to keep finding things to pass along. Where there's smoke, there's fire.
McNair retired from football after the 2007 season with a 91-62 record as a starting quarterback. He won the Associated Press MVP in 2003 and played in Super Bowl XXXIV, famously leading the Tennessee Titans to within one yard of scoring a game-tying touchdown as time expired. He was just 36 years old when he passed away, and is survived by his wife and four children.



















Reader Comments (Page 1 of 10)
7-10-2009 @ 11:46AM
soulcitysigma1914 said...
not to make excuses for this, but it does happen on the regular with athletes. i won't name the actually athlete since i don't have proof, but a certain athlete is from Wilmington, NC where I went to college and his extramaritals were VERY frequent and well-known down there, though nationwide this athlete is considered to be a very wholesome family man. It's hard to see through the illusion
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7-10-2009 @ 9:35PM
bobdeg28 said...
Soulcity...hmmm...basketball or boxing?
It's amazing how surprised people are when an athlete, actor/actress, tv personality, etc. are revealed to be leading horrible private lives. It seems to be when you have the money and fame, you need to "want" other things instead of being thankful for the blessings and opportunities you have. Stick to real heroes and not those that "make the money" entertaining us. That does not make a hero.
7-10-2009 @ 11:35PM
soulcitysigma1914 said...
basketball, and yes that is who i am referring to. i know the boxer you are alluding to but i hadn't heard anyone talk about him being a busy body down there
7-13-2009 @ 10:39PM
puredeja101 said...
Michael Jordan... lol
7-10-2009 @ 12:06PM
Eva Diva said...
McNair??? I don't care how you dressed him up and what kind of condo, house or Escalade you put him in, he was STILL a worthless piece of humanity. He was a SLUT. Plain and simple. He does not deserve to be in any hall except the HALL OF SHAME....and EMBARRASSMENT
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7-10-2009 @ 12:49PM
Steve said...
GROW UP !!!!!
7-10-2009 @ 2:48PM
rperry2593 said...
JEALOUS AND ENVY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. If you had the talent and resouces you would be doing the same thing ,but since u don't u fell the need to critize someone.Get a life
7-10-2009 @ 3:13PM
Fargus said...
rperry, you are an idiot and sound just as bad as Eva. At least everything Eva said was true....
7-11-2009 @ 9:16AM
lxldjk said...
Ask your mother and father if they ever cheated!!!
7-10-2009 @ 9:43PM
Pasklo said...
Another total waste of human protoplasm.
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7-10-2009 @ 12:38PM
longfordmac2 said...
"ENOUGH ALREADY" !!!
This week we celebrated the life of a fine artist
(to be fair) who was a "PEDOPHILE" & then the life of a fine athlete (also to be fair) who carried on with a stripper/whore. We need to get it straight what is worthy, and what isn't. No wonder we have fallen so far. The youngsters today can get by thinking they can behave wrecklessly and immorally and be recognized as heroes. Ultimately it all sickens me.
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7-10-2009 @ 9:48PM
Rose said...
Obviously you believe in guilty until proven innocent - I hope for your sake you are never arrested for anything. MJ was NEVER convicted and both supposed victims had finally admitted that it was made up just for the money.
7-10-2009 @ 10:52PM
spoilstewart said...
how do you know he was a pedophile, did you witness something you wanna tell us about?
7-11-2009 @ 2:48AM
TruthBTold said...
Amen! It isn't the "Look At Me" Charity that makes a hero, but what you are to your family!
7-10-2009 @ 12:45PM
Steve said...
All you do gooders need to get a life..Somebodys private life is THEIR private life the same as you have one to and if anybody tries to interfear or get involoved in YOUR PRIVATE LIFE they would be told where to get off and what to do,SO instead of commenting on anyone elses PRIVATE LIFE shut up and look after your own ya..ITS NONE OF YOUR BUISNESS and this is how rumors get started the esculate into what you do gooders thrive on.. Get a life people and grow up..Regards to all the decent people out there that mind their own buisness and dont post STUPID comments..Steve Dublin Ireland
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7-10-2009 @ 1:13PM
soulcitysigma1914 said...
i agree with you. actually i'm someone who is the eternal confidant with my friends, and many many of my friends have cheated and confided in me because they trust me. i never been married but i've really just come to the conclusion that MOST (certainly not all) people cannot obligate themselves to having sex w/ the same person for the rest of their lives, and shouldn't try to. i will admit that if i were an athlete or the governor of SC, I too would use those positions of status to score w/ some women that a normal man couldn't have. so i have nothing to say in judgment of mcnair
7-10-2009 @ 10:37PM
thestephchick said...
Steve, aren't you being a bit of a hypocrite by commenting on a blog where you had to read about someone else's "private life" in order to know the content of the discussion? You are just as guilty for reading about McNair and getting involved in this discussion...
7-11-2009 @ 4:37AM
Steve said...
Hi thestephchick !!No as a matter of fact im not a hypocrite explain to me why by mentioning that people should stick to their own buisness..What i do is read the comments left by people on the subject written above..I have not commented directly on the subject other than to say that people should mind their own buisness when it comes to the private lives of another person of whom they dont know other than to see him on tv ..I have not like other people here called the man names or said he deserved what he got or called him a slut or anything that might offend his family,as a matter of FACT why do a lot of people commenting on this matter insult him in a place where members of his family might read..at the end of the day he MIGHT have made a mistake but who has HASNT in some form or another but now the guy is dead let the subject rest and let Steve McNair rest in piece also so before you say what i am read the rest of the post before you judge me and then say who the hypocrites are ,NOW just to mention again in my post have i had an opinion on Steve McNairs private life NO so again read the rest of the posts as i have..Best Regards Steve Dublin Ireland
7-11-2009 @ 4:46AM
Steve said...
Just one other little thing ,i like a lot of other people out there have enough on my plate worrying about my family without interfering in other peoples PRIVATE buisness..Again Regards
7-11-2009 @ 7:46AM
Brent said...
His private life was lost when he signed for the millions annually paid by us as his fans! He knew better and so did his maker! Karma sucks for those who play its odds like they play with our ticket money! How much do you think he left his kids in comparison to what he spent on the whores?