NASHVILLE, Tenn. (AP) -- Sahel Kazemi was determined to be with her boyfriend, former NFL star Steve McNair -- even in death.As he dozed on a sofa early Saturday, Kazemi shot him in the head, then twice in the chest, then again in the head.
Before shooting herself, the 20-year-old sat next to his body and "tried to stage it so she would fall in his lap," Police Chief Ronal Serpas said Wednesday at a press conference where police confirmed the deaths were a murder-suicide. She did, but her body slid to the floor and ended up at McNair's feet. The gun was found underneath her.
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Serpas said police believe McNair was asleep when he was killed.
Interviews with friends revealed that Kazemi "was spinning out of control."
She was making payments on two cars, her rent was doubling and she suspected the married McNair was having a second affair with another young woman.
She told a friend on Friday that "My life is a ball of s-- and I should end it," Serpas said.
Police earlier had labeled McNair's death a homicide, but waited for further tests before concluding that she pulled the trigger of a 9 mm semiautomatic pistol in a condominium McNair rented with a friend.
McNair, 36, a quarterback for the Tennessee Titans most of his career, met Kazemi six months ago at a sports cafe where she was a waitress and his family often ate. She seemed happy and eager to build a life with him, but something went wrong.
"We do know that she was clearly sending a message during the last five to seven days of her life that things were going bad quickly," Serpas said, though there was no indication she told anyone she planned to harm McNair.
Serpas said detectives learned that Kazemi recently found out about another young woman she thought McNair was romantically involved with and had even followed that woman home, though she did not confront her.
Kazemi's family told reporters that the woman was so confident McNair was divorcing his wife of 12 years that she was preparing to sell her furniture and move in with him.
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FILE -- This June 28, 2001 file photo shows Tennessee Titans quarterback Steve McNair and his wife, Mechelle, smiling during a news conference in Nashville, Tenn. after McNair signed a contract extention. (AP Photo/Christopher Berkey, fILE)
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NASHVILLE, TN - JULY 6: Former Tennessee Titan Eddie George attends a press conference in reaction to the death of former Titan star quarterback Steve McNair July 6, 2009 in Nashville, Tennessee. McNair was found shot to death in a Nashville condominium on July 4th, his girlfreinds' body was also found at the scene. (Photo by Rusty Russell/Getty Images) *** Local Caption *** Eddie George
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NASHVILLE, TN - JULY 6: Former Tennessee Titan Eddie George attends a press conference in reaction to the death of former Titan star quarterback Steve McNair July 6, 2009 in Nashville, Tennessee. McNair was found shot to death in a Nashville condominium on July 4th, his girlfreinds' body was also found at the scene. (Photo by Rusty Russell/Getty Images) *** Local Caption *** Eddie George
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NASHVILLE, TN - JULY 6: Former Tennessee Titan Eddie George attends a press conference in reaction to the death of former Titan star quarterback Steve McNair July 6, 2009 in Nashville, Tennessee. McNair was found shot to death in a Nashville condominium on July 4th, his girlfreinds' body was also found at the scene. (Photo by Rusty Russell/Getty Images) *** Local Caption *** Eddie George
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NASHVILLE, TN - JULY 6: Tennessee Titans Coach Jeff Fisher speaks at a press conference in reaction to the death of former Titan star quarterback Steve McNair July 6, 2009 in Nashville, Tennessee. McNair was found shot to death in a Nashville condominium on July 4th, his girlfreinds' body was also found at the scene. (Photo by Rusty Russell/Getty Images) *** Local Caption *** Jeff Fisher
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NASHVILLE, TN - JULY 6: Tennessee Titans Coach Jeff Fisher speaks at a press conference in reaction to the death of former Titan star quarterback Steve McNair July 6, 2009 in Nashville, Tennessee. McNair was found shot to death in a Nashville condominium on July 4th, his girlfreinds' body was also found at the scene. (Photo by Rusty Russell/Getty Images) *** Local Caption *** Jeff Fisher
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NASHVILLE, TN - JULY 6: Former Tennessee Titans players Eddie George (L) and Brad Hopkins attend a press conference in reaction to the death of former Titan star quarterback Steve McNair July 6, 2009 in Nashville, Tennessee. McNair was found shot to death in a Nashville condominium on July 4th, his girlfreinds' body was also found at the scene. (Photo by Rusty Russell/Getty Images) *** Local Caption *** Brad Hopkins;Eddie George
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NASHVILLE, TN - JULY 6: Tennessee Titans Coach Jeff Fisher speaks at a press conference in reaction to the death of former Titan star quarterback Steve McNair July 6, 2009 in Nashville, Tennessee. McNair was found shot to death in a Nashville condominium on July 4th, his girlfreinds' body was also found at the scene. (Photo by Rusty Russell/Getty Images) *** Local Caption *** Jeff Fisher
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NASHVILLE, TN - JULY 6: Tennessee Titans Coach Jeff Fisher speaks at a press conference in reaction to the death of former Titan star quarterback Steve McNair July 6, 2009 in Nashville, Tennessee. McNair was found shot to death in a Nashville condominium on July 4th, his girlfreinds' body was also found at the scene. (Photo by Rusty Russell/Getty Images) *** Local Caption *** Jeff Fisher
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NASHVILLE, TN - JULY 6: Tennessee Titans Coach Jeff Fisher speaks at a press conference in reaction to the death of former Titan star quarterback Steve McNair July 6, 2009 in Nashville, Tennessee. McNair was found shot to death in a Nashville condominium on July 4th, his girlfreinds' body was also found at the scene. (Photo by Rusty Russell/Getty Images) *** Local Caption *** Jeff Fisher
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Two days before the shooting, police stopped Kazemi driving a Cadillac Escalade sport utility vehicle that McNair had given her for her birthday in May.
According to an arrest affidavit, Kazemi had bloodshot eyes and alcohol on her breath. She refused a breath test and told an officer "she was not drunk, she was high." She was charged with DUI. McNair was with her but not charged. He later made her bail.
Police are awaiting toxicology reports on both bodies.
The man McNair shared the condo with discovered them Saturday and called a friend, Robert Gaddy, who arrived and called 911. Serpas said the man didn't call 911 himself because he was in shock.
Gaddy said Wednesday that what he saw in the condo will haunt him for the rest of his life, but he was glad police made clear that his longtime friend did not suffer.
Serpas said that even though both Kazemi's name and McNair's were on the Cadillac's title, she was apparently responsible for making payments. She was also making payments on another car after she couldn't sell it.
Kazemi had no history of violence, but "on the last several days of her life it's obvious that she made some very poor decisions," Serpas said.
Mechelle McNair has not spoken publicly since the shooting. Bishop Joseph W. Walker III of Mount Zion Baptist Church, which the McNairs have attended since moving to Nashville in 1997, said Wednesday that she is doing as well as can be expected.
"Her faith is what's sustaining her now," he said. "We haven't talked about the circumstances of his death. She is processing it in a private way. It's obviously devastating on so many levels."
Gaddy defended McNair as a great husband.
"When Mechelle is ready to speak, she will let people know that. We can't justify anything that people are starting to find out, but the one thing that we can say, that I know for sure, is that Steve loved his family," Gaddy said.
A memorial service is set for Thursday night in Nashville, with the funeral Saturday in his native Mississippi.
The four-time Pro Bowl quarterback was being remembered Wednesday at the stadium where he played much of his career. The Tennessee Titans opened LP Field for fans to watch video highlights of McNair's 13-year NFL career and look at photos of the quarterback. There was also a book for them to write messages that will be given to the family.
McNair was known as "Air McNair" for his passing prowess at Alcorn State in Mississippi. In 2000, he helped lead the Titans to the Super Bowl, where they ended up a yard short of a touchdown on the last play of the game when they trailed by seven points.
He spent the last two seasons with the Baltimore Ravens before retiring from the NFL last year.
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McNair signed a seven-year contract with the Houston Oilers after being selected third overall in the 1995 NFL Draft. As a prolific quarterback at Alcorn State, he shattered Division I-AA records, won the Walter Payton Award, and finished third in Heisman Trophy voting behind Rashaan Salaam and Ki-Jana Carter.
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During his early NFL career, McNair remained a backup to Chris Chandler until starting a game in December 1996 against the Jaguars. In his first season as the Oilers' starter in 1997, he led the team to an 8-8 record, and his 2,665 passing yards were the most for the Oilers since Warren Moon in 1993. He also collected 674 yards on the ground, the third-highest total for a quarterback in NFL history.
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McNair developed a special bond with his teammates as the franchise progressed and the team's name was changed to the Tennessee Titans. With emerging stars such as wide receiver Derrick Mason, pictured, McNair led the Titans to victory in seven of their last nine games during the 1999 season. Tennessee finished with a 13
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McNair and the Titans battled throughout the 1999 playoffs, including a shocking wild-card win over Buffalo on a play dubbed the "Music City Miracle." His most notable drive came in Super Bowl XXXIV, when he carried the Titans 87 yards in the final minute and 48 seconds, only to come up just shy when Kevin Dyson was tackled at the 1-yard-line. The Titans lost 23-16 in a heartbreaker.
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Despite missing two games with an injured calf and ankle during the 2003 season, McNair finished with the best numbers of his career -- including 24 touchdown passes and a quarterback rating of 100.4. McNair and Peyton Manning were named co-NFL MVPs following the season. "I'm sharing it with Peyton Manning, I'm sharing it with a great guy," said McNair.
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Titans head coach Jeff Fisher, left, told The Tennessean that he'll always remember McNair as one of his favorite players. "It is an extremely emotional moment and I don
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McNair, referred to as a "warrior" by former teammate Al Del Greco, fought through numerous aches and pains during his career. He missed eight games in 2004 with a bruised sternum, but rebounded for a successful closing season with the Titans in 2005.
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In June 2006, McNair's long stay with the Titans ended with a trade to Baltimore, where he played the final two seasons of his career. He led the Ravens to a 13-3 record and an AFC South championship in 2006 before faltering in 2007 due to back and shoulder injuries.
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With both the Titans and Ravens, the respected veteran paved the way for young black quarterbacks such as Vince Young, right, and Troy Smith. "He taught me so much - not about the game, but about life, and I owe him a great deal," said Young.
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 63)
7-08-2009 @ 4:15PM
cterry9478 said...
Well, so much for having a "team" on the side.
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7-08-2009 @ 4:58PM
Cyndi said...
I hate to sound mean, but this wouldn't have happened to him if he hadn't placed himself in a dangerous position. He allowed this woman into his life, despite his MARRIAGE VOWS! I'm certainly not saying he deserved this -- no one deserves to be murdered -- but I am saying that he has a lot of personal reponsibility in this situation. This would never happen to me because I would never have an affair -- allowing such a situation to develop. Period.
7-08-2009 @ 5:16PM
vladkmeiru said...
I'm curious. No mention about CSU investigating trajectory marks, I don't remember them finding the gun near her head or anything like that. All they're going on is speculation.
7-08-2009 @ 7:32PM
Richard said...
vladkmeiru, you show you know nothing about criminal investigations, just keep watching the boob tube (ever wonder why it is called the boob tube?) and let real people do the criminal investigations. Now I am sure they tested both parties hands to see whom had fired a weapon, but I do doubt he shot her in the head at point blank range and then shot himself twice in the chest and twice in the head. What a boob. And does anyone out there believe that a man fooling around on his wife won't fool around on his girlfriend? But the idea of giving someone a vehicle for a birthday gift then making them make the payments, LOL.
7-08-2009 @ 4:25PM
stephanie said...
R.I.P.
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7-08-2009 @ 4:32PM
williamson07 said...
What a waste of two young lives!
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7-08-2009 @ 4:36PM
clay brooks said...
so sad ...he should have taken his nap at home!
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7-08-2009 @ 5:45PM
aunicorns62 said...
he was @ his house she broke in or had the key
7-08-2009 @ 6:35PM
pahall180 said...
he shouldn't have been cheating on his wife and kids!!!
7-09-2009 @ 3:33PM
ledzeppelin8896 said...
he was at home
7-08-2009 @ 4:36PM
fyterqurlxD said...
thass sad- nobody deserves to die while their asleep- nobody dezervez to die. period- RIP to him
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7-09-2009 @ 12:30AM
Laie Laie said...
We ALL deserve to die... Unless you're saying G-d is wrong... And if you don't believe in G-d, then you must believe that we are here by chance and therefore having no purpose.. And if life doesn't have a purpose then neither does death.. The point is; we ALL deserve to die...
7-09-2009 @ 7:35AM
burntsurf said...
I believe you mean that no one deserves to be murdered because as we all know, we all will die. McNair did not deserve to be murdered but he also should not have been screwing around on his wife and showing complete disrespect for his family
7-08-2009 @ 4:36PM
Bud said...
Duh, she did it
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7-08-2009 @ 4:37PM
Chuck said...
She suspected he was seeing another woman?
HE WAS MARRIED!!!
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7-08-2009 @ 5:00PM
Miss Natalie said...
My thoughts exactly! She was 'another *girl*. 20 doesn't necessarily make you a woman. In this case it just makes her stupid. Not that he was a saint. But that was one tough QB and no one can argue that.
7-08-2009 @ 5:12PM
Debbie.TX said...
Duh...what he was married???LOL not according to her (Kazemi)...
7-08-2009 @ 5:48PM
demillicent said...
Lol you're right. She knew there was another woman. His wife!!! Too bad this happened. But people should not allow themselves to get into such situations. He died in shame after all the good he has done in his life for others.
7-08-2009 @ 5:49PM
aunicorns62 said...
i no rite
7-08-2009 @ 10:20PM
Kathi said...
My thoughts exactly