Last month, NFL Network's Jamie Dukes argued that it was "hypocritical to say [Brett Favre] should stop playing because you think it's time for him to stop." Never mind that no one has ever argued that. Instead, most fans -- even those with just a casual interest in the sport -- would prefer Favre not fake retire every offseason. I don't think that's asking for a lot. Dukes is back. The just-concluded NFL Rookie Symposium prompted Dukes to writes that, "... there is an expectation among the populous that NFL players are supposed to be perfect because they were given the right to play football. THAT NOTION IS LUDICROUS!"
I agree, that is ludicrous. And it's probably why I have never heard anybody -- ever -- express disappointment in a public figure for not being perfect. There's more, of course.
I've heard this bogus argument dating back to my days on sports-talk radio and even this week on Twitter. The notion that suggests "if I were given that chance, I would do ..." It's easy to say what you would or would not do when you're not in a particular situation. There is a passage in the Bible where Jesus asks, "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone." Have you ever got behind the wheel after having too many drinks? Have you ever had a one-night stand? Have you hung out late with your buddies to the dismay of your wife?Fans aren't taking to Twitter or to message boards to pan athletes who have one-night stands, or hang out late with their buddies (and how this isn't obvious to Dukes is hard to fathom), but as THN points out, no amount of money would prompt most folks to fight dogs or shoot up a strip club, for example.
I understand that guys in their early 20s suddenly worth a few million bucks tend to have a skewed sense of reality. But there's a difference between, say, this (or, hell, this or this) and makin' it rain.
Sports Illustrated's Ross Tucker, who played in the league for seven seasons, was at the Rookie Symposium this week and writes, "It is an intense format designed to help players make the transition from college to the pros. For the NFL, it is a sizable investment in their future and many of the players that succeed can point to a watershed moment from the symposium." Weird. No mention of perfection training.
And 2007 Rams first-rounder Chris Long makes the case that Dukes doesn't. "I firmly believe that NFL players should be held to a higher standard ... and this event is one reason why." That's the point -- it's perfectly reasonable to expect high-profile athletes to conform to the same rules as the rest of us, and those expectations have nothing to do with living mistake-free lives.





















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7-03-2009 @ 5:23PM
bob hughes said...
I don't expect them to be perfect but neither do I expect them to be felons and drug addicts. There is an old addage.....You can take the boy out of the country but you can't take the country out of the boy. In the NFL. it's.... you can take the boy out of the ghetto but you casn'y tskr the ghetto out of the boy.
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7-04-2009 @ 10:13AM
fouritiswritten said...
if they were felons or audulterers or drug addicts they would be bankers or wall strret speculators or in congress
7-03-2009 @ 5:27PM
Janice said...
Bob Hughes, i didn't know ryan leaf was from the ghetto!!!!!! a&hole!!!!!
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7-03-2009 @ 6:38PM
YouFaceTheTick said...
Care very little what players do in their off time. If they are convicted then the criminal justice system should punish them. Otherwise, BFD.
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7-03-2009 @ 9:23PM
Melvin said...
Yeah, back in the day, I drank and drove. I went to strip clubs. I carried a gun. I sped. I blew stop signs.
I didn't need $2 million a year to do such things.
Only difference is nobody was watching me. If I got caught driving drunk, I got the ticket, paid the fine and moved on. My name wasn't in the newspapers.
And yes, if you had given me $10 million on my 22nd birthday, I'd have partied for three years straight.
So it isn't about ME judging them.
It isn't what penalty or justice I want to see meted out against these athletes.
THEY DID THIS TO THEMSELVES BY VIRUTE of accepting the job of pro athlete.
It simply comes with the terriotry.
So Burress, Vick and Stallworth should get jail time... like I would get jail time if I did what they did and got caught.
Why are they special ??
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7-03-2009 @ 10:15PM
BUCKWILD jr said...
Isn't the crime rate for the players lower than the U.S general population?
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7-11-2009 @ 11:27PM
art heff said...
ONCE AGAIN RYAN,YOUHAVE OUTDONE YOURSELF ,FAKE RETIREMENT?MONTANA PLAYED TILL 42,JORDAN WENT BASEBALL AND ACTUALLY PLAYED,WE ALL KNOW BETTER PLAYERS SHOULD HAVE BEEN OUT THERE,HOW ABOUT LOVE OF THE GAME,I THINK YOU SPEAKING FOR THE POPULUS IS FRIGHTENING,NOT SO FAST,THE GUY DESRVED A SHOOTOUT,EVERYONE DOES,ONE HALF BAD SEASON,OUT OF 17,ONE HALF PHENOMENAL,YOU PEOPLE NEED A LIFE,STOP CHECKING SPORTSPAGE LIKE THE DOW TICKER,FAVRE IS COMING,AND ALOT OF WRITERS WILL BE ON THAT VERY LONG UNEMPLOY. LINE,HEED MY WORDS
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