Ben Roethlisberger is 27 years old, has two Super Bowl rings, and is the starting quarterback for the league's most popular team. There are worse ways to go through life. Of course, with fame comes the hassles of dealing with crackpots. There used to be a time when stalkers had to do some legwork, literally. John Hinckley Jr. and Margaret Mary Ray come to mind. Now, thanks to the series of tubes that has made it easier for all of us -- save Ted Stevens, perhaps -- to communicate, those people with nothing better to do than harass the rich and famous, can do so from home.
In recent years, social media web sites have gone from a niche following to an integral part of most users' online experience. Athletes and actors are now on Facebook and Twitter, allowing fans to talk to them directly. This has also led to the proliferation of bogus accounts, many of which are confused for the real thing until said athlete or actor -- or more likely, their agent or publicist -- tells us otherwise. (Hey, Lane, might want to try that next time.)
Just this week, the Twitter accounts of the Eagles' Trent Cole and Asante Samuel, and the Cowboys' DeMarcus Ware all proved to be fake. And today, the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette reports that despite what Big Ben wrote on his Facebook, MySpace and Twitter pages, he doesn't have skin cancer. Because those aren't actually his sites.
"There's no truth to it. I don't have any of that stuff," the Steelers quarterback proclaimed yesterday. ... Roethlisberger said he does not use [social media sites], including the one under his name that proclaimed he had skin cancer.But it gets better: "I get people all the time who come up to me and they actually get really mad because I didn't talk to them on Facebook or something, or MySpace," Roethlisberger said. "I try to tell them I don't have it."
"I had a bunch of people ask me about it; obviously it's not true," Roethlisberger said after yesterday's spring practice. "We had to go on our Web site to let them know I don't have an account. There's nothing going on."
Right, Ben, and those "Sent from my iPhone" signatures on your curt, grammatically laughable e-mails are actually sent from your iPhone and not your laptop.* And you're not "waiting to go out with friends." Uh-huh.
In general, other than having the sites taken down after the fact, I don't know how you avoid this. In Big Ben's case, however, it's probably worth sending a patrol car to Brian Jackson's house. It's the right thing to do.
* I might be projecting
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 1)
5-22-2009 @ 2:26PM
Freedom Chyld said...
Please xxxorcoxxx your an idiot. Do you know Ben personally? Did you go to school with him, have you seen him with a guy in a sexually manner way? If not.. you have NO reason to post such a thing. I know Ben.. went to school with Ben.. He's a nice guy.. down to earth and without a doubt.. NOT gay.
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5-22-2009 @ 2:46PM
Lita said...
Interesting comment from XXXORCOXX. People who make remarks like this, more often than not, do so to because they need to draw attention from their behavior which, oddly enough, is what they accuse others of. (Notice the screen name ends with COXXX.) Please come out of the closet and direct that bitterness and resent to those who have done something to warrant it.
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5-26-2009 @ 7:22PM
LaJuan said...
Great post, Lita.
5-22-2009 @ 3:02PM
Hey, Dude said...
I'm so proud of Ben for not falling into the mindless idiocy of all those people who seem to think Facebook, and Twitter, and all those other idiot My Space rip off sites, are worthy of their time. And to the moron who said he's gay--even IF he was, he'd still get laid more often than you do, you dill weed. Ben has something you only WISH you had--a personality, a good guy image, a life...Ignore the dumbasses, Ben--real people still love you! :)
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5-22-2009 @ 4:23PM
Adam Dutty said...
LOL, like its the firt time someone ever made a fake social network page! ROTFL
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5-22-2009 @ 5:37PM
Devin said...
Hey stnd2bne, you must be a Cleveland Browns fan. Only a browns fan could be so stupid. Worthless doesnt equal TWO super bowl rings. How many does ur team have? Doesnt matter- I know it is not SIX. LOL Got the last laugh, nuff said.
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5-22-2009 @ 10:45PM
Yezzi said...
LOL! If he was good he would have at least won ONE Superbowl MVP. Find me another QB who has gone 2-0 in the Superbowl and not gotten at least ONE MVP....
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It's because he's worthless.
5-22-2009 @ 7:37PM
sgunknown said...
Im a redskin fan I have nothing but praise for ben he rookie of the year 2 time super bowl champ future hall of famer but not the best biker in the world
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5-22-2009 @ 9:02PM
Garry said...
I can sympathize with Ben. I used to be a teacher and my former students created a MySpace account in my name, got my pic from the school yearbook and added it to my profile, and then added me as a friend. Before long, I had been "friend passed" to most of my students.
I, of course, was blissfully unaware of this until confronted by an angry student who wanted to know why I had not answered his question about a homework assignment.
He had thought it was my real MySpace page and that I checked it regularly. I had no idea the page existed, let alone checked it regularly.
I had to contact MySpace and report the site as fake (since I couldn't log onto it and delete the account because the pranksters hadn't shared the password with me). MySpace killed the page.
Bottom line: Ben says "I didn't say it!" I believe him
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5-22-2009 @ 9:55PM
Lori Roadway said...
I just can't stand all the negative comments, Ben is a great athlete and everyone here in Pittsburgh loves him, I guess since he plays for Pittsburgh thats all that matters! Let's go Pens!!
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5-22-2009 @ 9:14PM
Lori said...
Why all the negative comments, everyone here in Pgh loves him and I guess thats all that matters considering he does play for Pittsburgh! If you want to be negative why don't you concern yourself with Micheal Vick already getting out of prison for murdering dogs!! Let's go Pens!!
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5-22-2009 @ 9:59PM
patr728 said...
And you should know this how???????
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5-22-2009 @ 11:15PM
cookie said...
he's a queer ? He is far from that ... Maybe your just mad cause you are and he wouldn't give u the time of the day ....
big ben fan !!!!!!!!!
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5-22-2009 @ 11:20PM
cookie said...
you must be that queers man that xxxo or what ever ... Ben I guess its not only the ladies that look at that nice ass of yours....
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5-22-2009 @ 11:41PM
cookie said...
you know you non believers can say whatever , About Ben ... He is our QB and we love him !!! He wins MVP every game he plays , to us ...
besides your the only worhless ass , can you even pass a ball ???? u say daaaaaa where did the ball go where did it go . Look down at your feet .... u worthless piece of crap !!!!!
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5-22-2009 @ 11:53PM
violetdks said...
Go Ben, and go Steelers. You guys looked great at the White House, neat, happy, and doing something like packing USO care packages, I know it was used as a publicity photo shoot but you still gave the time and effort to do it, and looked like you were having fun doing it. The Pres sure looked like he was happy to have the team football, too bad you guys couldn't have a short pickup game while you were there!!!! Can't wait for the season to start, a Pittsburgh born Florida resident, and fan for the Steelers for life
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5-23-2009 @ 1:19AM
bravz01 said...
Obama supporters are misinformed,but are too blind to realize it.
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5-23-2009 @ 2:49AM
mccown10 said...
Big Ben is a great QB. This is coming from a Dallas fan. To all who wish ill on people remember what goes around comes aroound. Grow up!
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